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By
Charlie "Tremendous" Jones
All our lives we encounter persuaders.
Those who were successful are largely responsible
for the way we are. Because some of us are exposed
to some positive persuaders we are drawn to
become positive persuaders. I believe all successful
persuaders are a result of having been successfully
persuaded at some time in their lives.
What a strange world it would be if there were
no persuaders. Life is one continuous series
of persuasions. At home it is the parent persuading
the child, the child persuading the parent,
the salesman persuading the prospect, the lawyer
persuading the jury, the boy persuading the
girl or the politician persuading his constituency.
And on and on.
The persuader isn't restricted
to a certain personality. You can be a persuader
through the pen like Thomas Jefferson or fiery
oratory like Patrick Henry. You may be a persuader
through diplomacy like Daniel Webster or in
great wisdom like Lincoln. You may be a persuader
through humor like Will Rogers or silence like
Gandhi. There is no end to the different techniques
and temperaments possessed by great persuaders.
The motive of the persuader
is not limited to good causes either. There
is the Hitler who appeals to national pride
and supremacy or the Mother Theresa who appeals
to forsake everything and serve all. There is
the Castro who promises freedom and plenty and
delivers slavery and the opportunity to survive
or escape in a boat. It sometimes appears that
the persuaders for evil outnumber the good,
but that is because the persuaders for good
causes are usually in the background and do
not seek the spotlight. The evil persuader usually
draws attention to himself while the persuader
for good draws attention to his cause.
Think about your persuaders.
Check your heroes. For example, Tom Paine was
a hero to many with his "Age Of Reason."
My reaction was different to his writing because
I had thought through the inconsistencies that
annoyed him and never needed to judge Jesus
Christ by the failures of his followers. Do
not blame your disillusionment on others. It
is usually yourself who creates the illusions
that precedes your disillusionment.
One of the greatest examples
of the power of persuasion in one life is the
Apostle Paul. He writes in II Timothy, "I
know whom I have believed and am persuaded that
He is able to keep that which I have committed
unto Him against that day." It takes great
persuasion for one of the most learned, successful
men of the day to do a complete about face and
commit his whole life to serving one who previously
had been the object of Paul's persecutions and
executions. And even though Paul was totally
persuaded for his own life, and was one of the
most powerful personalities of the day, he had
his failures in the art of persuasion too. After
his great presentation of the Grace of God,
and his personal experience with Jesus Christ,
King Agrippa responded, "Almost thou persuadeth
me to be a Christian" (Acts 26:28).
To be a persuader you must be
persuaded and in order to continue to grow we
must practice the art of persuasion. The old
saying, "Nothing succeeds like Success,"
fits the persuader perfectly. The earlier in
life you begin, the fuller your life will become.
It is only in sharing and giving that we realize
what we have, and we can give nothing better
than persuading others to worthwhile goals,
right motives and eternal values.
I think it is safe to say that sometimes in
our lives we will be persuaded and become positive
persuaders seeking to give and share, or we'll
not be persuaded and spend the rest of our lives
waiting for a break, taking and keeping.
As you read biographies of Great
Persuaders, my hope and prayer for you is that
you will think with them, crystallize your purpose
and join the great persuaders in the crusade.
Persuade those in your sphere of influence,
to read more, think more, share more, love more,
give more, work more, work smarter. Because
I can assure you if you don't the people who
might have done more, will do less. Life doesn't
stand still.
I'm grateful for every opportunity
to share my thoughts on persuasion. While I
do not count myself a great persuader, I am
one of the most thankful persuaders. In 1950
I met a great persuader who, like the Apostle
Paul, shared some Bible verses with me; but
I like King Agrippa, was ALMOST persuaded. Later
that day, alone in my car, I settled life's
most important question, "What will I live
my life for?" Immediately upon my commitment
to Jesus Christ I was given a Sunday School
class of pre-teen boys to persuade. Because
of this experience I became a more enthusiastic
persuader in my sales work and public speaking.
I had experienced being persuaded and at once
had a much bigger and brighter picture of everything.
I hope these thoughts on persuasion
have increased your awareness of the great privilege
and obligation of the persuader. The world needs
one more positive persuader. Is it you?
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